Getting married is a life changing
situation and something everybody
wants to do right because nobody
plans to walk down the aisle more
than once…at least nobody in their
right mind plans to.
If you are planning to walk down
the aisle in the very near future and
with the woman you are seeing and
you need to be very sure she’s the
one, here are qualities that if she’s
got, she just might not fit into the
role.
1. She’s dependent- On you for
everything. When she wants to buy
the smallest thing, she dials your
number and asks you to buy it for
her. When she wants to make any
important decision, she stalls and
waits till you see each other. When
she needs to do things she should
be able to handle on her own, she
keeps waiting for you to come
make the decision for her, then you
need to think twice.
Nothing bad in making decisions
togethter or helping her buy stuff
but everything is wrong when it
happens all of the time.
A wife needs to be independent. Be
able to run the home when her
husband isn’t home and make
important decisions when he is
busy.
You need an independent one not a
dependent person. It is a wife you
want not a pet.
2. Her dressing- believe it or not, a
wife needs to apply a bit of
modesty in her dressing when she
gets married.
Now, easy as it is to say she’d
change her closet full of skimpy
and semi Unclad clothes when she
says I do, she needs to begin to
change it now.
You can only be used to things you
have started practising.
There’s a difference between a wife
and a ho. If your wife dresses like
a video vixen all the time or like a
stripper, then expect no respect
whatsoever when you are out
together.
Besides, when the kids start
coming, how do you want to
explain to them why mommy keeps
dressing like she raided a
kindergarten store and took all
their baby dresses?
3. She’s rude- I know no man
wants a woman who cannot
respect him. Not as a girlfriend, not
as a wife. So if your woman is rude
(to you and to every other person
around) and she shows no traces
of changing, don’t bother making
her a wife.
The cracks would soon begin to
show and you would hate yourself
if you wife her.
4. She’s emotionally unstable- if
she is sweet today and she goes
from that to extremely rude and not
bothered in the next minute and
then obnoxious, then you need to
relax a bit.
Find out what makes her flaky. If
she’s just that emotionally unstable
person, then think twice about the
relationship before taking the next
step.
Bigger things come in marriage. If
she can’t handle courtship, she
won’t be able to handle marriage.
5. She lies- lying partners are the
worst ever. No reason why you
should even be with them in
relationships talk less of marriage.
If she lies, run!
You wife her and it is the beginning
of your end!
6. You have absolutely nothing in
common- if you both can’t seem to
find a common ground, then think
twice.
When the initial “gra gra” is gone
and all you have left is great
friendship, you would need things
to spice your marriage up.
This includes things you both love
doing together. What happens
when you hate what she loves and
she hates what you love?
7. She mismanages everything- a
woman who would rather buy an
expensive weave than spend
money on better things or who
makes decisions that aren’t smart
where money is concerned or who
would urge you to spend money on
the most expensive cars rather
than invest in reasonable things
would not make a good wife.
http://www.kenyan-post.com/2013/07/
signs-that-your-girlfriend-may-never-
be.html
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